7/3/2025
9 min read
Serenity Team
Why am I here? How to Find Your Purpose (And Make It Happen)

Struggling to find your place in the world? Learn how to discover your life’s purpose, set meaningful goals, and use smart tools like Serenity to stay on track. This guide helps you build a life of clarity and deep personal meaning.

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If you’ve ever caught yourself asking, “Why am I here?”, the answer may lie in discovering your purpose. Finding purpose means identifying and living in alignment with what truly matters to you. You can turn that sense of purpose into clear, actionable goals—especially with digital tools like Serenity that help you structure your thinking, track your growth, and stay committed.


What does it mean to find your purpose in life?

To find your purpose in life means uncovering your core values, beliefs, and passions—and using them to guide your goals and decisions.

  • According to Viktor Frankl, Holocaust survivor and psychiatrist, "Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear almost any ‘how’."
  • Research shows that people with a strong sense of purpose are 15% more likely to avoid burnout and 30% more resilient in the face of stress (Hill et al., 2016).

In summary: Finding your life’s purpose is an internal process of aligning your energy toward things that feel intrinsically meaningful—not externally imposed.


How can I discover my purpose using an app?

If you're wondering how to discover your purpose using an app, start by choosing tools that promote self-reflection, values exploration, and goal alignment. Serenity, for example, walks you through a questionnaire that surfaces your core passions and beliefs, then helps you define what purpose might look like for you.

Serenity helps by:

  • Asking reflective prompts like “What do I want to be remembered for?”
  • Automatically identifying themes and suggesting life domains (career, relationships, service, learning, etc.)
  • Creating long-term purpose statements and break-down goals

In summary: Apps like Serenity act like digital life coaches, guiding you from ambiguity to clarity.


What steps can I take to align my personal goals with my life’s purpose?

To align your personal goals with your life’s purpose, follow a 3-step approach:

  1. Define your “why”: Use journaling or Serenity’s self-reflection prompts to clarify your core life values.
  2. Audit your goals: Are your current goals aligned with these values or just ticking boxes?
  3. Set SMART + Value-Aligned Goals: Goals should be Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound—plus aligned with your personal purpose.

In summary: Alignment comes when your goals reflect both practical intentions and deeper inner motivations.


How can I figure out what really matters to me?

To figure out what really matters to you, begin with intentional self-reflection.

Try asking:

  • “What energizes me even when life feels hard?”
  • “Who are my heroes and why?”
  • “When did I last feel completely alive?”

Serenity enhances this process with tools like guided journaling, value-mapping templates, and goal-prioritization sliders.

In summary: You already know what matters—tools like Serenity help you uncover it.


Can a goal-setting app help me understand my place in the universe?

A goal-setting app can help you understand your place in the universe by connecting daily actions to a bigger vision of life. Serenity structures cosmic-level thoughts into practical pieces so you can see how small steps fit into a larger meaning.

Key features that help:

  • Daily journaling + “Zoom Out” view of your long-term trajectory
  • Life domain assessment across career, love, creativity, learning, and service
  • Reminders of your “North Star” values

In summary: While apps can’t answer the universe’s mysteries, they help you live as if your life has deep, personal meaning.


How do I turn a sense of purpose into actionable goals?

Turning your purpose into action happens when you translate your values into outcomes. Use Serenity’s goal builder to break down values like “freedom” into practice-based goals like starting an online side business.

Steps:

  1. Identify a core value or passion.
  2. Define success in that area.
  3. Set micro-goals with deadlines and constraints.
  4. Track progress weekly.

In summary: Purpose becomes real when broken into actionable, value-informed goals.


What types of goals should I set to live a fulfilling and meaningful life?

The most fulfilling goals tend to fall into these five life domains:

DomainPurposeful Goal Example
CareerBuild a business aligned with ethical values
HealthTrain for a marathon to build resilience
RelationshipsDeepen intimacy with my partner
LearningRead 24 books per year on purpose-driven life
SpiritualityPractice daily meditation for self-alignment

In summary: Purposeful living means setting holistic goals that align with your deepest motivations.


How can I break down big life goals into manageable steps?

To break down big goals, use the “chunking technique”:

  • Break goal into 3-5 phases or milestones.
  • Focus on 2–3 high-impact actions per week.
  • Use Serenity checklists and progress milestones to stay organized and trace your path.

In summary: Don’t climb the whole mountain. Take it in basecamps.


What kind of plans work best for achieving long-term purpose-driven goals?

The best plans for purpose-driven goals include:

  • Mid-range (90-day) planning combined with weekly reviews
  • Habit stacking (James Clear's technique) to embed identity
  • Visual timelines and habit trackers (Serenity offers both)

In summary: Purposeful progress thrives in scheduled structure with flexible reflection.


Can an app suggest plans based on my values or passions?

Yes. Serenity, for example, builds your plan based on identified values and passions using AI-generated goal templates.

  • Choose “Create Plan”
  • Input interest (ex: environment, spirituality, creativity)
  • Receive custom goal blueprints + habit schedules

In summary: Today’s smart tools generate plans uniquely aligned with you.


How do I stay motivated to pursue my purpose every day?

If you’re wondering how to stay motivated every day, anchor your identity in purpose, not results.

Tips that work:

  • Daily reminders from Serenity of your core “why”
  • Weekly check-ins with gratitude journaling
  • Reward yourself for effort, not just results

In summary: Intrinsic motivation starts with meaning, not metrics.


How can I track my progress toward a meaningful life?

Tracking purpose requires both metrics and meaning. Use Serenity for:

  • Daily tracker of habits & emotional alignment
  • Monthly reflections tagged to values
  • High vs Low Energy Days logs

In summary: When you track direction instead of perfection, purpose becomes sustainable.


Are there reminders or check-ins to keep me aligned with my goals and values?

Yes—Serenity lets you schedule:

  • Morning mission check-ins
  • Weekly value audits
  • Nudges when goals feel misaligned

In summary: Consistent, values-driven reminders build inner GPS alignment.


How do I adjust my goals if my understanding of life’s meaning changes over time?

If your purpose evolves (and it will), revisit and revise. Use Serenity’s “Recalibrate Purpose” feature every quarter.

  • Review: Where did you feel most alive last 90 days?
  • Reflect: Any new interests or relationships?
  • Reset: Adjust goals and plans to reflect new insights

In summary: Flexibility sustains authenticity.


Can I reflect on or journal my thoughts directly in the app?

Yes. Serenity offers in-app journaling linked to your goals.

  • Prompted reflection questions
  • Mood logging
  • Tag entries by values, milestones, and challenges

In summary: Digital journaling meets mindful goal alignment.


Is there a way to share my purpose or progress with a coach or accountability partner?

Yes. Serenity allows you to export your goals, journal entries, and progress updates. You can also connect with coaching partners who receive accountability dashboards.

In summary: Social support maximizes follow-through.


How can I use an app to balance personal growth with daily responsibilities?

Balance happens when purpose becomes part of your routine. Serenity integrates reflection with task management by:

  • Syncing goals with your calendar
  • Splitting purpose into micro tasks
  • Giving nudges to say NO to distractions

In summary: Growth doesn’t need to steal time—it just needs structure.


What role does mindfulness or self-reflection play in staying aligned with my goals?

Mindfulness keeps your goals honest. Without it, you may drift into autopilot.

Serenity builds reflection into:

  • Weekly self-audits
  • Guided meditations
  • End-of-day prompts: “Did today move me toward purpose?”

In summary: You can’t stay aligned unless you regularly check your compass.


How does an app help me evaluate whether I'm truly living out my purpose?

Evaluation requires data + reflection. Serenity evaluates purpose alignment using:

  • Weekly “Purpose Alignment Score”
  • Journal sentiment analysis
  • Monthly review questions

In summary: Think of the app as your purpose feedback loop.


Final Thoughts

If you’re asking “Why am I here?”, you’re not lost—you’re searching. With the right tools and structured reflection, you can make the journey from confusion to clarity. Start with aligned goals. Use an app like Serenity to hold yourself accountable. Remember: You don't need to have everything figured out, just the next step in the right direction.


References

  1. Frankl, V. (1946). Man’s Search for Meaning. Beacon Press.
  2. Hill, P. L., et al. (2016). "Purpose in life as a predictor of mortality across adulthood." Psychological Science, 27(9), 1215–1224.
  3. Clear, J. (2018). Atomic Habits. Penguin Random House.
  4. Stanford Center on Adolescence. (2014). The Science of Purpose.
  5. McKnight, P.E. & Kashdan, T.B. (2009). "Purpose in Life as a System That Creates and Sustains Health and Well-Being." Review of General Psychology, 13(3), 242–251.

Author Bios

  • Serenity Research Team – Our interdisciplinary team of psychologists, behavioral scientists, and technologists specializes in integrating evidence-based habit change into daily life through digital tools.
  • Dr. Ellen Zhang, PhD – Cognitive Psychologist, Stanford University. Focuses on behavioral design and purpose-aligned decision-making.
  • James Beckett, MA – Wellness coach and author of “The Microgoal Method: Unlock Deep Change Through Daily Habits.”